Opinion: Dramatically change life and the world
Life needs to change. The world needs to change. We need more conscious, sustainable, healthy trends. Every individual can contribute to a transformation. However, we need to stop expecting it all to be easy. Here are some realistic expectations and how to find more success when making a difference.
This is an opinion from Melanie Suzanne Wilson.
Gradually influence complex, deeply established systems.
Unsustainable industries and practices are thoroughly established in most people’s everyday lives. There are great opportunities for change. It will take time. I recently saw someone throwing a shelf in the garbage when it could have been reused or repurposed. People don’t consider the alternatives. Many people use banks that may have values that contrast with the extra-ethical Bank Australia. There is also a significant need for more whole plant options in food outlets without additives. Professionals assume they can only use the old solutions, such as more plastic. Peope need to be guided towards ways that can support the planet and industry requirements.
Natural living has became an alternative, but we all need it. Image: Unsplash, edited.
Acknowledge that other people may have a steep learning curve.
People might not understand what you are doing and why. You shouldn’t let that get in the way. And you don’t have to justify your personal decisions to anyone else. But if you want your old social circles to wrap their minds around your changes, get ready for them to potentially struggle. That’s ok. It can become an opportunity to either show them the way, or broaden your horizons.
When I became a vegan, it was such a learning curve for the above generations. My grandmother asked me if I would eat prawns. I needed to explain to another family member that I don’t prefer a soap that contains animal-based ingredients because that person assumed I had only changed my diet. People didn’t realise I was making an ethical decision about all the products I use. And some don’t understand that I don’t eat anything that comes from an animal. On top of that, I was also trying to make healthy choices. People needed to realise I generally avoid ultra-processed foods when I am doing what feels right for myself.
We can be compassionate and set an example. People can learn from our discoveries. We can only inform those who want to learn. Do what you can. And know that there could be simple misunderstandings along the way. The right people will have good intentions wherever they are on their journeys.
Find new support networks and communities when your old social circles can’t relate to your new ways.
We need to connect with people who share our lifestyles and values. Whether you are into spiritual mindfulness, sustainable lifestyles or healthy habits, this is important.
You could make a small change, such as walking or moving around more. If you are surrounded by people who drive all the time and don’t even walk a few blocks away, you might not feel supported in your choices. Joining an active group can help you to stay motivated.
When we transform more practices in our lives, finding like-minded people becomes even more important. We can feel a sense of belonging instead of experiencing counter-cultural isolation. I always enjoy meeting people who explore conscious living. There is more to talk about, and I feel more comfortable.
